If you can teach someone to pathologize themselves, there are a multitude of outcomes. One being they stay within the container you've psychologically created for them.
There are a myriad of benefits to convincing someone to stay within a certain psychological area code. If they dare not travel past the bounds of your pre-existing mental geography, then the relationship can stay tethered to certain topics.
This can create some comforts - the subject matter doesn't evolve, which means you're free to loop talk - same energy, same insights, just slightly different shifts in the way you share them. Time provides a bit of space to sparse out more of the same chatter.
But one of the wildest things about convincing someone there is nothing they can do - that "this" is how it is for "people like us" is it allows you to freely stay within the the landscape of avoiding your own terror, of seeing life through a different lens.
If your perspective were challenged, it could mean that you would be called to task: to contend with the depth of feeling associated with awareness of your own unwillingness, to try to do something different - to do the work of seeing what's possible.
If it were true that there could be another way to exist, it could mean that, A - you have been dis-empowered by your own conditioning, IE controlled by societal messaging, media & generational suffering; and B - you cannot maintain power over the person you've conditioned to believe in your limiting perspectives about yourself, about them, and life.
And if you don't have control over them anymore, that means they may go out and prove through their actions and the subsequent repercussions, that there's much more to life than the holistic poverty speak you've prophetized since the dawn of your influence upon them.
Now I'm not saying "you" - IE the person reading this - is the one doing this. But I am saying that within each and every one of us is a fragmented energy, often a voice, inspired by a person who taught us to believe very limiting things about ourselves and life. It's an energy of lack that teaches you to only see the limitations.
And I am saying that often, it's the people closest to us who are so fucking terrified of having their habits & lifestyle around perpetuating soul-impoverishment agendas kiboshed, that they do a really good job of attempting to stomp down on anyone who is rising out of the tide of unnecessary suffering.
Once you realize that wealth is arbitrary - that it's not something to feel hopelessly ashamed of - you can start to contemplate a different story.
You can begin to allocate your energy and time toward seeing the inherent wealth within you, in your own life, and build up the abundant perspective which proves invalid the worst of the worst attempts, to teach you to stay dis-empowered, afraid of your capacity to live in a more wealthy state of mind, body, soul & money.
If someone taught you to draw a line around yourself and stay within it, get an eraser.
If you feel shame about having wealthy experiences in your life, it means there's a part of your soul that's desperate for you to do the work of debunking that shame.
Remember that money, wealth, abundance: it's arbitrary. Someone taught you to apply the emotional labeling. They likely still perpetuate that process.
Set your sails on a new story. The shame is not necessary - it's a story. Write a new one.
You weren’t made to stay inside someone else's limits.
Step beyond the story you were handed—explore what's possible.
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